| Location | Burry Port South Wales |
| Age | 74 years |
| Cause of Death | Cancer |
| Date of Birth | 28/12/1933 |
| Date of Death | 20/03/2008 |
| Visitors | 876 since 09/04/2008 |
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doris lillian wilde age 74 yrs old died 20th match 2008 20.05, burry port south wales
doris had 5 children and 14 grandchildren and 2 great grand daughters bliss and kiki, 1 great grandson zach lee
my mum died in prince phillip hospital on the 20th march 2008 just after 8pm, she died of cancer which she had been fighting for the last 6 months,
i was with my mum till she tock her last breath..
when we first found out mum had cancer nobody told mum what she had( i think she new she had it but didnt want to know deep in her heart) i live in northampton myself and i use to go down to wales every month and stay for a week to be with my mum knowing i would'nt have long left with her, it was in november i remember as she was getting worse that i said to my sister mum needs to know whats happening with her body as my brothers didnt feel it was right for mum to know, but who ever is reading my story on how my mum and how every day for me was hard watching her get worse, i tock it upon myself to tell my mum she had cancer and how long she had left, and why these things was happening to her body which she didnt know why, after telling my mum she didnt say nothing fro 15 mins then she turn round and said to me michelle who knows about this i said mum we all do including the doctors and some of your grandchildren as well, she went silent again and the she looked at me and cried her eyes out, i gave her a cuddle and said to my mum, oh mum what have i done in telling you, she then turn round to me and said thank you michelle for telling me now i know that i have a fight on myhands to beat this, im gonna fight this i will and i turn round and said to my mum, we will fight it togeather. and we did,my two brothers hated me for telling my mum she had cancer, not so much mark my older brother, but lee my younger brother did he thought i was a bitch a cow and everything you could throw at someone in name calling he did at me, he wanted to kill me he was hateful over the phone, where to the point i didnt want to go to my mums funeral, reason why was couse i didnt want to ruin my mums speacil day, i spent xmas with her and tock my other sister down with her 2 children and we made sure our mum had the best ever xmas she had ever had, ,sadly my mum passed away 20th march 2008 just after 8pm, she was a fighter to the end, one thing i i wished id said out loud to my mum I LOVE YOU i keep it deep it inside to mself, if i could turn back time for a while id like to say i love you mum lots.. but i cant
i do love my mum but i never told her to her face..... only in writing, by cards for birthdays mother day and xmas..
but i know my mum knows i do love her lots,
on the 2nd april 2008 it was my mums big day her funeral, we made sure she went out in style, i shall never forget when i saw the the man walk my mum to her home and andagain walked her out,again it was very moving for me(and for my family as well),
my brothers lee and mark didnt have a go at me for telling our mother she had cancer, the words m brothers use and said to me was michelle,we thought we was pertecting her from the worse,
i do love my brothers and sisters, but to me, i felt my mum needed to know about her condition and why her body was changing...
my mum was born and grew up in aldershot farnbough,where her dad raised her and her 2 brothers derek and morris, my mums mum died when she was 6 yrs old, so mum had a sad life really growing up having to look after her dad and 2 brothers, my mum work in the local naffi shop where she meet the man of her dreams who was in the army, they was engaged, but sadly he died while on duty, then after a whileshe me meet my dad fred, and they got married and went on to have a family, even threw my mum slife i felt she was delt a bad hand as she never had a mother to look up to or give flowers to. but she was my mum and i looked up to my mum and gave flowers always to my mum...
my mum was a wonderful lady (woman i shud say mum hated the word lady ) she leaves behind 4 of my brothers and sisters, and all our children and her 1st great grand daughter bliss behind not one day goes by which i never forget my mum
i just wish i knew how to take the heart ache out of my heart, i no im not the only one who has lost a mum a friend and a soulmate, it hurts as each day goes by i hope in time it heals..
MUM I LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND MISSED YOU SO MUCH, I DOTN HAVE ANYONE TO TURN TO NOW BUT I KNOW YOUR HAPPY IN YOUR NEW LIFE
SEE YOU SOON MUM LOVE MICHELLE XXX
My beautiful nan
You know...when i think of you i only think of the good times. The fun times and the hilarious times. Never the bad.... I know your safe, and that you are finally free of the material bonds that held you down so that you could not simply float through our lives. No that would have been to easy. Instead you left your mark, your memories and your love. Those that will travel on forever in our hearts and in our memories.
I used to bottle it all up and cry myself to sleep each and every night when you left. I couldn't mention your name as it would reduce me to tears. You may think me being with you twenty four seven was a burden on my part but actually YOU made me! you shaped who i was to become. And every single day i pray and i wish and hope and dream that i could just hear the words..''im proud of you troy, i love you'' no matter how hard i pray and hope and dream i shall never hear it.
I know it isn;t your fault as if you had it your way you would still be by my side helping me through life. I cant help but wish i had tried to do better by you. everyone tells me i did more than anyone could, yet in my mind i didnt do enough. I didnt make you feel amazing and wanted aswel as loved every single day, i didnt make each day as if it were your last. Yeah...can you imagine you skydiving or driving a go-kart? neither can i...would have made you smile though. Nan i have two beautiful kids now and an amazing partner....i wish you could have met them before you went.
just to know that you knew i was safe and happy and where i wanted to be in life. Anyway i have gone on for long enough holding back emotions in fear of someone finding out the pain and fury aswel as confusion and heartache that i held within my heart watching you go day by day. These tears have been held in long enough. It is time to open the flood gates and let what will be will be. I just hope you know that you are and were loved by many people and above all you were my darling nan. I shall never forget you, i tell the kids stories about how great you were and how you made me me. Their eyes twinkle at the mention of your name.
Oh how i love you nan.
HAPPY BIRTHDAY MUM XXXXXX
Happy birthday special MUM
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MERRY CHRISTMAS.MUM XXX
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2 Years on...
Hi Mum
its reached the 2nd year of yr passing....yet it feels like a week ago.
How can i explain the mental anguish the last 2 years have been?
From the moment i got that text telling me u died... i screamed out loud...now i only scream silently inside.
Your granddaughters talk about their grumpy gran often..yr not forgotten mum... they still remember some of the things u used to do..like wind them up just to see their reaction which used to amuse u.
I feel trapped inside my head with my feelings about u, the way u were. yr death.... u see mum...although u were a difficult and canktankerous woman, i loved u so much...still do.
Really do hope u are finally at peace.. u so deserve it
Leah
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MY MUM
You are in every gentle raindrop
and each glint of morning dew
you're the breeze that softly whispers
and the autumn's golden hue
Your'e the winters gentle snowfalls
and the warming summer sun
and the first bright, fragrant flowers
when the springtime's just began
For although i really miss you
always hv and always will
nature's beauty al laround me
lets me know you're with me still
But to put my arms around you
with a kiss and bouquet
is all I ever long for
Just one more time.
REMEMBERING MY DEAR MUM ON MOTHERS DAY
you're in every gentle raindrop
and each glint of morning drew
you're the breeze that softly whispers
and the autum's golden hue
you're in winters gentle snowfalls
and the warming summer sun
and the first bright,fragrant flowers
with the springtime's just begun
for although i really miss you
always have and always will
natures beauty all around me
lets me know you're with me still
but to put my arms around you
with a kiss and a bouquet
is all i will ever long for
every year on mother's day
love u mum xxxxxxxxx
I LOVE YOU NAN
hey nan i miss you so much i hope u are happy naw out of that pain it was my birthday on the 16th of december i am 19 naw im getting old haha i went down to ur faverit beach it was upsetting and i am being verry good for mum and dad i got a full time job with the horses and i got my own horse naw i wish u was ere to see her she is gorjuse i love you so much
MY MUM
mum
on days when im alone im thinking of you,im always looking at your photo on my side wishing i can have a day with you,
not a single day goes by when your not on my mind, since you left you have another great granddaughter kiki who is one now and zach who is over 3 months old and is williams double he so adorable you would love him mum
love you so much and i do
michelle xxxxxx
LOVE YOU ,MUM XXXXXXXXX
HAPPY NEW YEAR (2010)
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